We commonly associate addiction with dependence on drugs and alcohol, but as addicts we know that any substance or behavior can become addictive for us. We can use anything to try and self-medicate our mental health issues, to numb our pain and cope with the demands of our lives. When we are trying to escape the traumatic experiences and losses we’ve sustained, when we’re trying to avoid our pain, we’ll use pretty much anything that brings us some relief, that provides us with a temporary distraction, that makes us feel happier and lighter than our pain does. What are some behavioral addictions we commonly suffer from?
Gambling and gaming are among the most common behavioral addictions we tend to struggle with. People report being so addicted that they invest, and lose, thousands of dollars and years of their time to their addictions. They find temporary refuge in the stimulation, excitement and adrenaline-rush of the games. The thrill of the high, of winning money, of risking it all feels worlds better than the emotional pain we’re trying to escape.
Many of us identify as love and sex addicts, and our addictions revolve around dating and relationships. We can find ourselves unable to stop the sexual behaviors that we’re unhappy with, that we later regret and that make us feel ashamed. We can feel powerless against this uncontrollable force. We can feel unable to end a relationship that is toxic, unhealthy or abusive. We might feel unable to stop engaging in risky or dangerous sexual behaviors that put our health at risk, such as casual, unprotected sex with strangers. We might love our partners but feel unable to be faithful to them. We might find ourselves compulsively using pornography, paying for sex or engaging in other behaviors that make us feel disappointed in ourselves, depressed, ashamed and regretful.
Eating disorders and other food-related behaviors can become addictions. We can binge eat until we’re sick, or on the other end, starve ourselves until our overall health is in shambles. We might use food as a coping mechanism for our anxiety and depression, or as an escape from our feelings of inadequacy and worthlessness. We might become so obsessed with food, so preoccupied with our consumption of it, that our eating habits and the food we eat are the objects of our addiction.
Any behavior can become addictive, even those that are part of a normal, healthy lifestyle such as eating and sex. Whenever we’re trying to use something as a coping mechanism to try and escape our pain, we are most likely forming a dependence that can easily develop into an addiction.
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Cheryl has a 24-year history of founding and managing treatment programs for adolescents, in addition to providing therapy for them and is now excited to work with adults at Corner Canyon Health Centers. Her own treatment experiences informed the development and implementation of the foundational components of Corner Canyon, and she looks forward to directing a program that meets all the expectations she had while in treatment and includes all the therapeutic practices that she has found to be effective throughout her career.
In 1998 Cheryl co-founded Second Nature Wilderness Program, which grew to be the largest private wilderness therapeutic program in the United States and included 5 separate locations. Cheryl also helped found Gateway Academy, a pre-eminent residential treatment program for adolescent boys, and looks forward to working with the Gateway Academy owners at Corner Canyon.
In 2003, Cheryl was elected by her colleagues throughout the United States to serve as a board member for the National Association for Therapeutic Schools and Programs. Cheryl works clinically with addiction, mood disorders, anxiety, trauma, family systems problems, and other co-occurring issues. She loves working with clients the most out of all the different roles she has played. Cheryl completed her education at Brigham Young University where she received her Bachelor of Science in Psychology and Sociology in 1991 and her Master’s Degree in Social Work in 1993. Her clinical training included CBT, DBT, Motivational Interviewing, Assertive Communication, and providing individual, family, group therapy and marriage counseling.
Cheryl is the oldest of ten children and has two adult children, a daughter and a son. Her interests include water sports, photography, interior design, household projects, and spending time with her family and friends. She loves house boating on Lake Powell, but her favorite pastime is spending time with her 5 wonderful grandchildren.